We, all are accountable with our own actions and decisions in life. For sure we will reap what we sow today. No one to blame but ourselves especially if we are not open to someones advise and words of wisdom from others. Even we are already in the right age doesnt mean we dont consider the advise of the family members. From the first place you knew already that something is wrong with that but still enjoying doing it, for sure sooner or later you will see the consequences of it. We really want to see you happy in life not just today but the whole chapter of your life but it seems you are not open enough and doing it as a cycle and in the end you know you are the loser. Hope you will not blame us when the day will come! We want nothing but a happy peaceful and most importantly inclined to God way of life. We love you dear sister hope you know that.